Next month is grandma's 80th birthday. I'am planning a party that she thinks is just immediate family, which is 3 families. We are doing a this was your life, and asking people to bring memories, not presents. Without seeing them at first, and hearing them through a speaker, she will have to guess who is speaking... grandkids,great grandchildren,relatives, neighbors, and people that she used to work for will share their memories of her life. They will each hand her a flower, and in the end she will have a beautiful bouquet. She loves flowers! She is from Budapest, Hungary, so the music will be mostly Hungarian and the food too.