For my husband's 30th birthday party, I planned a surprise party which was held at our friend's house. Since he is a huge fan of James Bond, that was the theme I used.  When the invitations went out, I requested that the guests dress up either as James Bond, a spy or a Bond girl. Everyone got really excited and showed up in tuxes, and slinky dresses.  I had a friend bartend for us serving...what else? Martinis, shake n not stirred. I also rented black jack tables. For decorations we used silver, black and gold balloons to cover the floor and ceiling. I also had a James Bond trivia, and to the person who answered all correctly received the collection of James Bond movies. I special ordered his cake so it looked like a BMW logo.    For party favors, I ordered chocolate cigars which were passed out. I also created a commerative james bond cd for each guest with a picture of my husband looking like james bond (i used a picture from our wedding.) on the cd.  Getting my husband to dress up in the signature black and white tux was a feat, but I told him that we were going to dinner someplace fancy and he needed a tux. I was able to pull this off because his birthday is between Christmas and New Year's so a lot of places are more festive.