I am in charge of the decorating and theme for my  mother-in-laws 80th Surprise Birthday Party.  One of my favorite ideas is to create a "Precious Thoughts" Book. I have asked family members to write a special thought or  memory they have of my mother-in-law. I will compile all in a book, with photos included. Various photos of her  as the outside cover.  This takes time so be sure to request your "memories/thoughts" in advance.  You can get the book bound at a copy/store like Kinko's.  I am excited  about this project! She can keep it on her coffee table and take a peek whenever she wants.